A Decade

its interesting when everyone posted their #10yearchallenge. What is amazing is you get to see drastic damages done unto the environment, from lush green turned unto dead cemented greys, green landscapes turned to a commercial tomb. As what Lord Buddha mentioned - Change is impermanence, we cant stop this process. Few expanded to another level, well others goes back lower, static, frozen in time - all of this is based on our choices we made, decisions taken and challenges we faced - all of this will make or break us.

One thing i found out - changing our-self is harder than changing the world. 

when you detach from the familiar, the process can be scary and liberating. Your "weltaanchaung" / perspectives turrned upside down. Its amazing when you got the anwers you needed based on time and maturity. The Universe will observe and evaluate your REACTION when you dont get the things you really want. 

You decide what is BEST for yourself.

You are the only one who set your own standard of happiness, contentment - Not others. 

You no longer KOW TOW to people ( bear in mind, the ones who love to advise you or others is not doing them )

you create the opportunities rather than letting or getting the opportunities. 

Your course of action ultimately will create more path towards liberation.

most of the time, we will think of others, thinking what is best but this is not a dictatorial process, its up for them to choose, evaluate based on their given abilities. Its a democratic approach, problem happens when people wants standard issues of achievements. 

how many clothes we can wear? 

how much we can eat and consume? 

how many cars we can drive, maintain and care for?

how and what we can do with our consumption intellectually, physically, mentally and emotionally?

judge oneself rather than others shall we.

the world will be quieter.