Selective

its not wrong when you are selective of your
food
reading
visual consumption
people whom you mingle with
people who share with your private space

its not being choosy, its being aware of your own presence, desires, wants, needs and most importantly acknowledging your existence. When you are aware, you making things easy for yourself and for others.

question : how to know if i'm aware or not?
answer :  imagine you are driving, both hands on the steering wheel? or half of your mind wandering to your smart phone. When you drive, you need to be thoughtful of the people on your left, right, back and front.

same thing when you are in the ATM, know what you want to do, rather than wasting people's time. Imagine you waste 3 minutes of the guy/girl standing behind you, see the whole line, imagine there are 5 people standing on the line, you wasted total of 15 minutes.

same thing with notify people if you are LATE.

so know what you want before you go to Mcdonalds, no need to hegeh-hegeh choosing your meal.

Its not about you, you and you.....its about you with the others?

susah ka?. If you said it's not - think again.

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